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What is so wrong about porn? Men’s health perspective.

You all know it, and I bet you all have seen couple of clips. Some of you even have favorite sites. Google created the “Incognito Tab” probably just because of this.

Yes, I am talking about porn. But what is so wrong about it?

Let’s forget about sexual objectification of woman, gender inequality, and ethical issues related with it. We all know that porn is wrong at many levels, but I want to talk about a perspective that we do not necessarily think about.

Porn is bad for man, especially young adults. I can identify couple reason that I believe is worth sharing.

1.      False education.

Without a doubt, sexual education is quite important for both men and women. Unfortunately, unless you are in an EU country, it is unlikely that you will get a good sexual education course. I believe by default, parents are bad in providing this education anyways.

So you exploit your broadband connection, and try to learn from the almighty web. Merely there is protected sex and sexual behaviors on internet. Sexual protection not just for birth control, but also for sexually transmitted diseases is vital; and as you all know porn does not offer much help. Moreover, it promotes risky behaviors like random (and unprotected) sex with strangers.

2.      False expectations

This is probably the worst thing about porn. People in real life are normal. They do not have DDD breasts, “…” cm’s of things (you know what I mean) or perform extraordinarily under all circumstances.

Especially for young adults, early experiences of sex are emotionally fragile. All types of performance pressures and illusion of a pornographic sex are hurting men. Porn destroys the normal, and create an unrealistic benchmark for men when such level is unmet the results are emotionally devastating.

3.      Loss of Humaneness

Human touch is important. Before we even realize porn is isolating men. It takes away social skills that are necessary to make the contact with the opposite sex. What I am trying to say is porn kills the flirt, and takes the humaneness out of the equation.

If you do not believe me, listen from the mastermind of Stanford Prison Experiment, the famous Prof. Philip Zimbardo.

http://www.ted.com/talks/zimchallenge.html

So men, let’s change your DNS settings and try harder to connect with woman.

Stay healthy,

Murat Uralkan

Murat Uralkan

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